Parenting toddler: Tantrum 2

Real life parenting is also about dealing with tantrum. How to avoid young children from developing tantrum?

I have some tips based on personal experiences:

1. Spend much time with your children in order to develop a close attachment with them.
2. Do always speak softly and show attention to them. Never ignore your children.
3. Follow what the children like if necessary. Once, we bought a pair of blue jean trousers for our three year old daughter. She loved it very much and insisted to wear it all the time. One day, she cried out endlessly for hours as she found out that the trousers were being washed. Therefore we bought some more trousers, exactly the same model.
4. However there are also limits. We may not always fulfill what the children want. Communicate well and make plans with them. We might tell them that they could buy another new toy not today, but next month, cause we have to save up some money first.
5. Be creative! Young children always need something fun to play with. Get ideas to entertain them. Try the internet, books and everything else. Once they feel happy, they will less likely to develop tantrums.